The Look

I always think theres a guy out there for every girl. Like in my case i met the guy of my dreams when i was 14. I went to a resturant with my family for New Years. We had just gotten back from vacation and my cousin and sister were mentioning how do you get guys to notice you. I said well i give them The Look. They started to laugh because who knows what there talking about when there 14. Anyways so i guess they were testing me and they said the nest guy who walks by our table you need to give The Look to. It just so happened to be a young cute guy. So i gave him The Look and smiled and he walked passed me moments later he had told his mom about his atraction to me and she spoke to my dad and we started talking. My sister and cousin were amazed but couldnt stop laughing because they just couldnt believe what had just happened . Well me and him started talking it was fun and we danced that night and had a good time! His parents were destined to get me and him together because he had alwats been a shy guy and never dated much. So they invited my family over for dinner the next day and he asked me out it was all crazy but i went for it. It was all so fun and exciting. The even funnier thing is my sister and cousin ended up dating his cousins. From then on no one could doubt my technique my cousin still admit to using it to try to get guys lol!

confidence is the key

One of the things that guys cant resist is a girl who has confidence. You need to be comfortable in your own skin. Think about when i guy is calling and all he does is complain and say how sad he is and how he wants to be with you. Then he'll be like you dont like me because im not good looking. I mean who wants to be with a person that always complains and feels bad about themselves. You want a person who can bring up everyday and make you feel good. Not a person who will bring you down. Recently i have been feeling down because me and my ex broke up then i thought about im like get over it if he wants you let him come to you. Let him carry all the conversations on the phone but make sure your the one to say ... (Well i got to go but call me later) By doing this you have more control and confidence and no matter how long it takes for them to call back just wait it will happen if he cares. I mean it might seem as if im playing games with him but i look at it as a diffrent way i look at it as confidence. Thats one of the biggest lessons i learned today. Just remember some one shouldnt have to feel sorry for you they should feel attraction towards you and thats why confidence is the key!

Things to say when thing go wrong

Listen I respect that you need time but I want to be with you more then anything. Some times just wanting to be with a person isnt going to help you have a great relationship. I know we have our diffrences and im not trying to change you but at least have more respect for me by picking up my calls and telling me where your going. I know you feel as if we talked about this. At times i wonder if im just setting myself up again to just get hurt. I want to say i trust you but i really cant say i do. I've learned with out trust you cant have a realtionship because its the basic fondation to a great relationship.I felt when i really felt as if i trusted you 100% you ended up lieing to me again. If you cant prove to me certain thing or at least try. Then I really am going to have to try my best to move on. I cant promise that I wont ever call you again because I do still care about you. You have the right not to pick up my calls or even talk to me any more. I hope that we could still be friends thorugh all we've been through. I'm not saying we should call each other but not become stangers either.

Introduction

Hey! Im layne I was born in Brazil and moved to New Jersey at 2. Im 18 now and my friend Jessica encoraged me to start my own blog so it sounded like a good idea so i guess thats what im doing right now.Anyways i like to dance and i like to try 2 sing maily because my sister has an amazing voice and if i could get one note out like i her i would be happy lol. I guess i like to write idk how good I am at writing i guess its up to you to decide that. What i wanted to talk about maily is my biggest stuggle right now. I mean who really understands the dating rules..... Are there rules? or Is it good enough to just be your self? Well im currently single but its been a long battle for me. Theres one guy in particular. Hes the one who won my heart over and i know I've won his but.... why cant we be together? Well i guess you'll soon find out..... keep reading!